Executives come in many different forms, but they share a common trait: They like to get things done. They are not all necessarily "Type A" individuals, but they all are driven in one way or another to succeed.
To communicate effectively with this type of person (and you are probably one as well) you need to understand what is motivating them to approach you about why or what your department is (or isn't) doing. Are they looking for more market share? Bottom-line growth? Cost control? Better worker productivity?
Once you figure out why they want something, then you can start to address what they are really asking for. Relying on technical arguments with non-technical people seeking business solutions will probably get you nowhere, agreed John Baldoni, founder of Baldoni Consulting, an executive communications coaching firm and author of numerous books on communication skills.
To do this effectively, however, you, the CIO, must have a good understanding of the business your department is supporting. Without this you will locked into technical arguments that, as mentioned above, will probably fall on deaf ears and cause a glazing effect around the eyes.
"Tell it in real live terms," said Baldoni. "Sell the benefits. Describe the features but sell the benefits."
The good news is, if you are a CIO today, then you are in a better position than ever to accomplish this balancing act because chances are your background is not purely technical. You have some grasp of big-picture business issues and how IT works in that context to support the extended enterprise.
If opening lines of communication don't work with your boss, you might be in a tight spot, said Katz. If that is the case, then take a deep breath, don't take it personally and prepare to add some layers of skin. Your boss is probably riding roughshod over everyone anyway and may be just his or her way of dealing with the stresses inherent in selling more widgets.
They could also feel threatened by you because of your understanding of a world they cannot comprehend. A world that, increasingly, they are dependent upon for survival, said Katz.
Either way, you will have to explain things to him in business terms so it's probably best to blow the dust off of your old economics texts. If you do, your chances of lessening the stress of your job by lessening the stress of your boss's job will greatly improve.
And once the communication is flowing, keep it going no matter what, the experts agree.
Schedule regular meetings with the other C-levels to update everyone on IT's initiatives and progress; send out a quarterly, marketing-type brochure touting IT's accomplishments (OK, a memo might do just as well), put a ticker-type dashboard in the lobby that displays network uptime in terms of dollars ... anything that sends the message IT is working to support the company and not the other way around.